Thank you for your answer Greg.
I have now tried with 2 new relays, and one used.
The last new relay was in original yamaha parts bag, and with original yamaha Tr1 spareparts number.
And it still didn't work.
The only one the works is my old and worn FU249CD relay.
I finally managed to find a new FU249CD in Holland.
Which I really hope will work.. Fingers crossed

I have now wasted about 200 euro's on relay's, so it is starting be a bit of a farce.